Story Tellers, As old as History itself!
I was on a networking call this past Friday & the moderator asked me,” who I was most great full for attributing where I am today?”. Without skipping a beat, I said my former husband. Gasps where heard on the other end of the phone line by all, men & women alike. I smiled internally.
In a society that makes the “ex” the evil bad person, that dogma no longer exists in my space. Evil? No! How can it be ? It took “two’ to be in a relationship & I choose to be responsible for my shortcomings as well. We all have them. Relationship is a growing learning experience. When you put two people together who never learned to open their mouths & communicate, circumstances arise . People do what we do and do it well. Acceptance is not always present. We often live a life of expectation without having a conversation or agreement around our thoughts and beliefs.
Had life been hurtful at the time, absolutely ! Have I grown from the experience? Absolutely ! I’ve learned & become passionate about communication, created a mentoring practice which I love and I’ve learned to be fully self expressed. I Found my voice.
I will always be saddened my marriage hadn’t worked out. The perfection is I got to see and know myself on another level. I have 3 wonderful connected children and my life could be worse. I hold no resentment,nor anger and Bless him and his life each day and am grateful,our lives intertwined. No coincidences in life after all . I choose to look for the perfection in all. Life is too short to hold on to what I believe life should look like. It is only me who will suffer for it.
Starting April 3 rd , I offer a group session call with the topic relating to relationship. I will be facilitating others for four weeks around the multifaceted levels of relationship.
Together we brainstorm , hold space for one and other as we plot our way through the healing experience as we grow & learn together. Topic changes monthly! Come expand your thinking, thoughts and connections!
Interested in joining? Feel free to contact me at karen@TranquilSOULutions.com for more information, time and cost.